An alpha male isn’t something you can explain in one sentence because it isn’t just one thing. An alpha male is a real man that has multiple characteristics other men dream about having. An alpha male is in peak physical shape. He is strong and athletic, which is appealing to the opposite sex. When danger comes knocking, the alpha male is there and can defend himself, his family, or even the people around him. The alpha male can entertain. He is funny and can have a group of strangers hanging on his every word. You want to strive to be an alpha male.
The alpha male has many interesting stories to tell because the alpha has experienced life. He has made mistakes, but who hasn’t? He can turn those mistakes into humor and a learning experience. The alpha male is persistent. Quitting is out of his head, for if he wants something he gets it. The alpha male does not know what fear is for he is courageous. He knows fear exists, but chooses to overlook it and fight it every chance he gets. The alpha male might be superior to all other men, but he is still humble. He has the ability to laugh at himself and stay down to earth. He is educated. Education does not mean that you have a degree, but he can hold himself in intellectual conversation with those who master their craft.
The alpha male has a purpose in his life. While others wander around life trying to figure it out, the alpha male is there perfecting his craft and creating himself. Every day he is one step closer to his goals. He never wanders, he travels, and everyone around him can see that. When he speaks he understands that his words have value. He doesn’t talk just to talk; he picks the words to say carefully. He understands that he has power and respects it. He never abuses it, for he always remains humble. The alpha male is never the loudest person in the room. He only speaks when he has something to contribute. He is a man’s man. Not saying he is the toughest or a hard person to like, but he is someone you wouldn’t mind hanging out with or drinking a beer with.
Alpha males fail, but they don’t fail like regular people. They fail and create a learning experience from it. They are leaders but not by telling people what to do. Instead, they lead by example. They are caring and generous; the first to help their fellow man and woman. The alpha male is a genuine person. He doesn’t go out of his way to make sure everyone is happy, but, instead, does his part and contributes when he can. He doesn’t care for other people’s opinions. He does respect his woman, cherishes the ground she walks on, but that is because she herself is an alpha woman. He knows how to pick her. He doesn’t pick a woman who controls his life or gets jealous over the small things. He picks a woman that betters him.
The alpha male has style and class. He is up to date with the latest fashion and starts some of his own trends in the meantime. He knows exactly who he is and doesn’t need to pretend to be something that he is not. He is not a worrier but a warrior. He doesn’t start fights, for he isn’t a bully. He never attacks, but he will defend. He stands his ground and avoids conflict when he can, but if the situation calls for it, he will never back down.
Most importantly, the alpha male does not try to be an alpha male. He becomes the best man he can possibly be for him and him only. Not to satisfy the opinion of others, but only to be able to contribute more in this world. He lives each day that goes by as if it were his last by giving more to this world than he takes. Strive to be this man for the world could use more alphas. Don’t do it for the girl. Don’t do it for the promotion. Do it for yourself. Do it so you can be the best you that you can possibly be and so that you can help change this world for the better. For when your time is up, the world will know that it was you who made all the difference.
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